The slower you go on the 1st and 2nd, the more romantic things will be. Yep, speed is your enemy as you're getting to know that special someone this month. Heck, it's time to get into the spirit of those long, lazy summer days. Put up your feet. Drink lemonade. Flirt, languidly. You're in the mood for some partner activities on the 3rd and 4th. Whether they're your partner or you'd just like them to be, call them. Invite them over for a lazy day by the kiddie pool. Play cards. What's that? You just got dealt the Queen of Hearts? Play it! The 10th and 11th are days for self invention, when you should brew a big pot of ice tea and daydream about just who you'd like to be. Get some exercise on the 13th and 14th. That's all the initiative you really need to take. By the 20th, infighting could be such a bummer that you should really do everything you can to avoid it. It's too hot to argue on the 25th! Even if you're in a totally air conditioned place, there's no need to get involved in useless squabbling. Keep your cool! Tend to your relationship on the 30th.